most men that I’ve met that consider themselves hyper masculine are either incredibly closeted to the point that they hate themselves or are rapists. thats it. it doesn’t seem healthy either way.
So many men have internalized the lie that they have uncontrollable sex drives, and no way to control their anger. They aren’t ashamed of their abusive behavior because they see it as a something natural to them and maybe even central to their masculinity. It’s scary as hell.